My son had a long-term girlfriend in high school, and I came to realize they were having sex, so I just made sure he had the facts about safety. We started talking about sex early, and positively, and consciously kept an open line so they knew they had support if they needed it. I’m a mother of two lovely and happy kids, both in their early 20s. Is this unusual, especially this late in life? How should approach this with my wife? At the same time, over the past few years, I have become fascinated with same-sex encounters. Over the course of our marriage, we have been very active sexually, but for various reasons over the past five or six years, our sexual activity has declined dramatically. I am a 68-year-old man who has been married to a woman for 45 years, with three grown kids. Nothing’s too small (or big).Įvery Thursday night, the crew responds to a bonus question in chat form. Send your questions for Stoya and Rich to. How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. My Girlfriend Just Suggested Sex in the Hottest Place-but I’m Not Sure the Locals Will Like It I’ve Spent 10 Years Trying to Re-Create It. My Husband Had a Threesome-With My Nemesis My Husband Just Confirmed the Real Problem With Our Sex Life.